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Child Activity Overload

January 23, 2020

How many activities is too many for an elementary aged child?  You want to give them a chance to try out different things, right?  How are they going to know what they like and what they don’t if they don’t get a chance to try them?  I am wondering though at what cost this may have.  Family dinners are already few and far between.  I am nervous we are going to end up on the go every night.  We are going to have to get creative when it comes to homework.  Luckily for us homework is only reading a book and a worksheet here or there.

There are so many options nowadays.  We have gymnastics, soccer, t-ball, and dance to choose from.  I am sure there are others out there that I am missing.

Next comes how to optimize our schedule.  What things can we stop doing?  What things can we outsource?  I am lucky enough to already have someone clean the house once a week. I am signed up for Shipt too, maybe I’ll use that a little more.

I know we’ll get through this.  It was really awesome today to hear from someone that’s been in the same boat and survived.  At the same time I can’t help but think I’ve gotten in over my head.

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20/20 in 2020

January 9, 2020

I decided to get Lasik this year and even though I think I am not quite at 20/20 vision the experience has been life changing.  It’s amazing how often we take for granted basic things like vision. 

One of the things that I am learning is how hard it can be to break a habit.  I have worn contacts for the better part of 20 years.  I am so conditioned to take them out and put them in that even though I know I don’t have them in I have to fight the urge every night to take them out.  In the mornings when I wake up, I still reach for my glasses.  Technically it’s only been a week and I shouldn’t expect to undo 20 years of conditioning overnight.

Over the past week though I am learning that I need to be a little more patient with myself as I am trying to give up some of my bad habits.  I set some goals for this year and I already broke one of them.  Instead of beating myself I am learning to accept the fact that even though I haven’t been perfect I did meet my goal half the time.  That’s 50% better than I did just a few weeks prior.

Habit changes rarely happen overnight, even though we’d like them to.  Sometimes we build habits over the course of many years and even though it won’t take that long to undo them it will take some time.  Congratulate yourself for the times that went well and forgive yourself for the times that don’t.

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New Year New Me

January 3, 2020

How about New Year Improved Me?  I have mixed feelings about New Years Resolutions.  I think waiting until the first of the year to change is dumb.  If you really want to change then do it now.  These are some things I have been working on for awhile now.  I am hoping that getting them out there gives other the motivation to share the things they are also working on.

Personal

  • Date Night with my Hubby at least once a month.
  • Donate all of the girl’s baby toys

Health

  • Continue with my at home workout programs
  • No alcohol on work nights

Personal Training

  • Finish my Nutrition Specialist Certification through ACE
  • Continue with Group Exercise classes at least once a week
  • Book at least 1 new client each month
  • Need to work on a process for doing this

I am keeping my list relatively short intentionally.  If I list too many things, I’ll probably get overwhelmed and give up.  Plus, I don’t really have a ton of spare time.  Here’s to giving it a go in the new year.

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