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Taking Action

August 16, 2017

I think I am on personal development overload.  They say you can have too much of a good thing, right?  The only reason I say that is because I have been feeling like I am taking in more information than I know what to do with.  I believe the term for that is “askhole”.  I keep looking for, or asking for advice, but never do anything with it. #guilty

This time I am deciding to take some action on a request that was given to me to write down 60-80 qualities of a job that would appeal to me.  First off this sounds like a pretty daunting task, but I’ll give it a whirl.  Secondly I need to surrender those qualities to the universe and see what I get.  That doesn’t mean just write them down and forget about them either.  This assignment really got me thinking though on which things I value most in a job.

The very first one thing that comes to mind for me is this magical 40 hour work week.  I’d really like to know who decided that 8 hours a day 5 days a week is really most productive.  I understand that some companies have ventured away from the stereotypical 8 hours a day thing, but for some reason most companies seem to still be stuck on this 40 hour work week.  If I can get a task done in 30 hours a week, why can’t I just stop there?  The answer to that question typically turns into, well since you have free time let’s load you up with something else to do.  Then at the same time it takes another individual 50 hours to complete the same task. That person will then either be given more time to complete the task or get paid OT to get it done. I understand life’s not fair and I don’t like comparing myself to other people, but I would like a job in which I am paid for my effort and efficiency.  If I get my work down effectively let me have those “extra” hours back.  On the flip side, if I am doing something I love or something that gives me more time with my family I don’t mind putting in the extra hours.

Another thing that really jumps out is vacation time.  If I am going to take some time off please don’t call or bother me. There are some rare occasions that I will tell people if they need something urgent to message me, but in those instances I am controlling and owning the situation.  Maybe I feel like its ok because I know the world isn’t going to come crashing down overnight.  Most of the time though I know I am not the sole keeper of information.

The more I think about it the more I can come up with more things.  Money is another one, but maybe surprisingly not the most important.  I am trying to build a bottom up approach to making money instead of making a blanket statement like “I need to make $100K to be happy”  If I have no idea where that money is going I have no idea if that is enough or maybe even too much.

So what’s one thing you’ve learned in the past few days that you are willing to take some action on?  It doesn’t need to be the same as mine and unless you are struggling with the same life choices I hope it’s not.

As a side note I am using the term job here intentionally.  I believe that a career is more than just a title.  If you are on the right career path your job title might change but your underlying “why” will not.

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Motivation from a Surprising Place

August 8, 2017

I recently discovered that I am obsessed with kid’s movies.  Maybe it took the 90+ times we watched Trolls before bed, but one day something finally clicked.  As far-fetched as they may seem sometimes they always have a great message about never giving up.  Trolls has to be one of my absolute favorites when it comes to a secretly extremely motivational story.  You have a character that tries her hardest to remain positive, never giving up.  Eventually that catches up with her and she does almost give up.  Ultimately she is rejuvenated by a fellow troll and they end up not only successfully completing what they sent out to do, but the spread happiness to those who didn’t think it was possible.  My new favorite is Moana; because we all need a little motivation about following our calling.  When you watch that movie take note of all the resistance she initially goes through and how hard the journey is for her.

I honestly think about quitting and giving up almost every day.  Life is hard sometimes and I hate to break it to folks but EVERYONE has challenges and obstacles they are going through.  Someone always has it a easier than you and someone will always have it harder than you.  Even if it seems like someone has it easier, you have no idea what they went through to get there.  People don’t typically share their struggles and I can’t figure out why.  Maybe I need to be a little more open about mine.

I wonder how many people give up right before they are successful.  I have heard countless stories regarding people that have failed hundreds of times before finally catching that big break.  So until then I am going to keep on moving forward and watching my kid movies for motivation.

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